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Inspirational, Stories 28/03/2019 by Dr Usha Anenga

My Award-Winning Wife, Mother, Doctor-Elect

I met my wife in a classroom while she was doing remedial studies at Benue State University, Makurdi. I was already in medical school, at the same institution.  As we chatted for the very first time, I noticed she had a little beautiful book by her side – It was a bible. I love academics but at that moment, my […]

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Relationship, Stories 10/02/2018 by Ogo Marilyn Omaafrica Anoma

Feel Free To Judge Me

A lot of you will be disappointed but then I am sorry…. I can’t help it! Every girl has at least dated a married man in her lifetime!  Yes I say this because I know and I have fallen in love and still in love and still dating a married man. Truth is, I can never stop loving him. I […]

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Relationship, Stories 20/09/2017 by Rose Ashiekaa

This Is How You Become A Virtuous Woman

Who can find a Virtuous woman? A virtuous woman is so expensive and has invested time, morals, principles, prayer, money and hard work in herself. Her Lover trust her because she is all there is to be in a woman, a complete package, a woman with balance, she nurtures, loves, care and is pleasant to him all her life… Kai […]

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Relationship, Stories 28/08/2017 by Salome Labeh

Who Is An Ideal Marital Partner

Didn’t know how to cut it short as every line is important. My thoughts. We are naturally attracted to flashy things, anything that makes a lot of noise has a certain appeal to our minds. We follow a reigning trend without even considering the implications of our choices, insofar as many other people take the same way, we feel secure. […]

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Relationship, Stories 28/07/2017 by Kwaghdoo Enyi

Here Is The 80/20 Rule

The other day a couple of my old girls came by and we ended up in a heated conversation over courtship, relationships, marriage and all the ships in between; divorce, separation, complicated, single parenting. This gave birth to my musing for today. As individuals do we seriously sit and pen down what we are looking for in a partner or […]

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Stories 5/04/2017 by Candy Love

Don’t you think you are a wicked man?

Illustration by: Ojo Agi She was ambitious when you first met her. She told you everything she wanted to become. She told you how poor her family is and her dream to make it in life. You loved her and married her promising her heaven and earth. She believed and trusted you. You convinced her to have a baby first […]

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Relationship, Stories 30/03/2017 by Enoch Smith

10 Reasons To Not Date A Married Man

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap: He won’t commit to a future with you A man who is […]

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Education, Stories 23/03/2017 by Simon V. Irtwange

Family Power Dispensations

In the lifetime of most Nigerian family settings, there are 3 Dispensations of Power. The 1st is the first 25 years in the life of the family  (father, mother, children) where power indisputably rest with the father. The 2nd is after the kids have grown and started working when the power shifts to the mother. The 3rd is when the […]

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Inspirational, Stories 9/03/2017 by Soo Jessica

I Am A Woman!

So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. […]

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