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Honestly There’s Nothing Inside Marriage
The above statement is very true and a lot of people may laugh at me but they will agree it’s true. Especially with what I have seen in my marriage recently, I have been left with no choice but to believe every word of the statement that there’s nothing inside marriage, it is totally empty and I can prove it. […]
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The Most Vulnerable Adult
The most vulnerable adult is the woman waiting for a fruit of the womb. She is ridiculed, has lost her sense of self and is gullible to anything filtered to her that can bring forth a child. She is led high and low, to doctors and spiritual healers. Confesses to all sorts and checks her family tree for issues. She […]
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Here Is The 80/20 Rule
The other day a couple of my old girls came by and we ended up in a heated conversation over courtship, relationships, marriage and all the ships in between; divorce, separation, complicated, single parenting. This gave birth to my musing for today. As individuals do we seriously sit and pen down what we are looking for in a partner or […]
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10 Reasons To Not Date A Married Man
There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap: He won’t commit to a future with you A man who is […]
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Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, It’s like pursuing a dream
Following up on Sewuese Bumkeng also known as Princess Selizz’s comment that: “A guy can love you and still cheat, just like we love God but still sin” I have discovered that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn’t always a […]
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I Am A Woman!
So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. […]
Read more →‘The Church Is Not The Target. My Marriage Is The Target’ – Lizzy
My name is Doctor Lizzy Johnson Suleiman, the wife of Apostle Johnson Suleiman, now ordinarily I don’t like media appearances but at this point for the purpose of clarity, I would have to speak. I have known my husband for the past 19 years, and if you are living with a man who is promiscuous or adulterous person, you will […]
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5 Things You Should Know About A Confident Woman
1. She is not afraid to speak her mind Remember that you have to have the power to be comfortable with yourself before you let someone else in your life. Speak up for yourself and for what you believe in. Don’t be a pushover and always fight for what you believe in. Think you deserve a raise? Ask for a […]
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The Plight of our Mothers, Wives and Daughters in our World today
It doesn’t take a feminist or a woman to feel for the plight of women in the world today. To be born of a woman and to be humane is what it takes to understand the ordeal of this specie of humans through out history to today. Women though perceived as weaker beings constitute half of the world’s population and […]
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This Valentine’s Day; Me And My Mo, Boo, Boo bobo and my Ekum
Weather in Jos was very cold in the morning and I didn’t know what to expect since it fell on a working day. I had called his younger brother to let him know I was sending my younger sister to him to keep something for his elder brother (my boo). I pleaded with him not to tell his brother anything. […]
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