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Here Is The 80/20 Rule
The other day a couple of my old girls came by and we ended up in a heated conversation over courtship, relationships, marriage and all the ships in between; divorce, separation, complicated, single parenting. This gave birth to my musing for today. As individuals do we seriously sit and pen down what we are looking for in a partner or […]
Read more →I Think Of Most Things You Think Of Too, True
I want to be rich. I want to be comfortable. I don’t want to be poor too.But…What if I become rich, what happens if I die. What if I become comfortable, will I be truly happy. What if I remain poor, what will be of life.Ops! So if I don’t die, I will surely become old. So what happens.What happens […]
Read more →Don’t you think you are a wicked man?
Illustration by: Ojo Agi She was ambitious when you first met her. She told you everything she wanted to become. She told you how poor her family is and her dream to make it in life. You loved her and married her promising her heaven and earth. She believed and trusted you. You convinced her to have a baby first […]
Read more →Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, It’s like pursuing a dream
Following up on Sewuese Bumkeng also known as Princess Selizz’s comment that: “A guy can love you and still cheat, just like we love God but still sin” I have discovered that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn’t always a […]
Read more →I Am A Woman!
So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. […]
Read more →It Is Better You Leave Alive Than Have Your Corpse Taken Out Of That Marriage
More women are coming out of abusive relationships everyday, baring it all, telling the world how much they had to sacrifice in such relationships… Most of these women did a lot of things initially to make the world think they were in the best relationships… painting the perfect pictures, until it became too much to keep up… Why do women […]
Read more →Is Marriage The End Of A Woman’s Dream?
… Isolated, Voiceless, Prisoned and all that for marriage sake! At first you were attracted to her looks, the things she does, how she dress, cook, smile, dance, walk and so on. But marrying her, you made her change most of her way of life to suit yours; That is making her to appear and behave as you want or […]
Read more →The Plight of our Mothers, Wives and Daughters in our World today
It doesn’t take a feminist or a woman to feel for the plight of women in the world today. To be born of a woman and to be humane is what it takes to understand the ordeal of this specie of humans through out history to today. Women though perceived as weaker beings constitute half of the world’s population and […]
Read more →Deep Inside
I decided recently that I was no longer going to be afraid. I have always lived in fear, deep inside of me. Many people who know me will argue to their death that I am not afraid of anything, they usually would say I am one of the strongest and most courageous person they’ve ever known. But what do you […]
Read more →Don’t Call Me, Let Me Call You; For Married Men
Learn to respect your wife at home, why not tell your side chicks, the other women, stress releaser, strange woman and so on to call you only when you’re at work or why not say you’re married – why hide this. Your wife’s sexual urge dies off and so her feelings too, her mood changes as you must know, not […]
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