Men Shouldn’t Hit Women? I Disagree

Relationship, Stories 14/05/2017 by Conan-Moses Orseer Anyamikegh

Benue: Most ladies have abused the submission by common sense that a woman is not to be hit by a man. Surprisingly this is the only time ladies evoke the theory of the weaker sex so as to ride over our intelligence as men. We must understand also that most men who hit women do so in pain, and out of hurt and betrayal, they get from their women’s attitude. This is a case synonymous with a parent spanking the child when such a child errs.

Men are also human beings with emotions and with a tendency to break down. Especially the sincere ones. Many a time we are conservative with the truth and would rather tell the world what we feel it should know.

I have seen many ladies talk to men rudely for this reason, I have seen ladies insult and embarrass men, some even go physical but what do we do?

Most women are today abusive, arrogant, naughty, insulting, wayward, unteachable, unfaithful all in the name of ‘the man has no right to hit a woman’. No one likes been beat, not even the man. And for that one has to avoid the things that may attract been beating. If a man steals and is caught he’s been beaten. If such a man had not stolen he won’t be beaten.

Now all am saying is; instead of women to be nice with their partners or the opposite sex generally, I mean to be respectful and mature in their dealings, they tend to operate with the belief that they are ladies and should be treated with respect and also worshipped just for that fact. They forget respect is reciprocal and as such downplay this side of the coin.

I have seen many ladies talk to men rudely, for this reason, I have seen ladies insult and embarrass men, some even go physical but what do we do? We keep mute and that’s how they continue to abuse and harass men all in the name of ‘a man is not supposes to hit a lady’.

© IamBenue, Benue State

I want to make something clear, the world was created by God and man was given dominion over it. The rules and theories don’t always apply in all situations. So Ladies should better understand that the man out of respect and common sense felt the woman should not be hit but the men too should know that this position was adopted out of common sense. So the ladies should also use their common sense and as a mark of reciprocating the respect accorded them not to be abusive, insulting, adulterous, rude, arrogant, and generally disrespectful. It is not one-way traffic.

When we understand these things then the world will be peaceful. I have seen people on this forum preach the gospel of not hitting a woman no matter what. Funnily these people fail to understand that some of the solutions they offer are far worse than the physical beating they preach against.

In most cases, the women themselves will be like “is there nothing else to do to the woman than beating her?” And me I will be like “why are you selecting the mode of punishment for what you did?”

Hey, you don’t wanna beat don’t do what will make him beat you. I think the ladies are hiding under the auspices of a ‘Weaker Sex’. Sorry to disappoint you, I won’t feel bad if a man hits a woman that deserves to be hit. The same way I won’t feel bad for a man who deserves to be treated like trash by a woman!

I will write again!

Read also: Beating Doesn’t Make Your Wife To Respect You Or Make You The Man

2 thoughts on “Men Shouldn’t Hit Women? I Disagree

  1. DatProudBenueWoman

    Just because you are a man doesn’t give you a right to “punish” a woman. Who then punishes you for Chrissakes! If a man hitting a woman is OK, then a woman should by all means, hit a man too when the need for “punishment” arises! After all, what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Anyways, this write-up is bigoted and one sided at best. It is written with no form of balance, reeks of male chauvinism, filled with malicious intent and borne out of poor self-esteem. I wonder why I waste my comment. Well, I case my rest.

  2. Just seeing the Username (DatProudBenueWoman) only has made me to understand why you sounded wounded in your comment. And to think that it took me 3 years to notice it? Well, really I am unperturbed about your assessment of the write up, a proud woman will actually not be objective with her response here. I still maintain my voice, women should bridle their tongues and avoid been hit by men who can not take their verbal abuse. We ma na de same blood we get for body!


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