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Relationship, Stories 27/08/2017 by Ayila Waya

Honestly There’s Nothing Inside Marriage

The above statement is very true and a lot of people may laugh at me but they will agree it’s true. Especially with what I have seen in my marriage recently, I have been left with no choice but to believe every word of the statement that there’s nothing inside marriage, it is totally empty and I can prove it. […]

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Culture, Stories 30/07/2017 by Joan Agabi

The Most Vulnerable Adult

The most vulnerable adult is the woman waiting for a fruit of the womb. She is ridiculed, has lost her sense of self and is gullible to anything filtered to her that can bring forth a child. She is led high and low, to doctors and spiritual healers. Confesses to all sorts and checks her family tree for issues. She […]

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Relationship, Stories 28/07/2017 by Kwaghdoo Enyi

Here Is The 80/20 Rule

The other day a couple of my old girls came by and we ended up in a heated conversation over courtship, relationships, marriage and all the ships in between; divorce, separation, complicated, single parenting. This gave birth to my musing for today. As individuals do we seriously sit and pen down what we are looking for in a partner or […]

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Relationship, Stories 30/03/2017 by Enoch Smith

10 Reasons To Not Date A Married Man

There are no positive reasons for dating a married man. Even the good reasons don’t stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas’ clothing. If you find yourself on the brink of temptation, look at these 10 truths before you leap: He won’t commit to a future with you A man who is […]

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Relationship, Stories 29/03/2017 by Bassey Inemeneh

Building a relationship is hard work, it’s like building a career, It’s like pursuing a dream

Following up on Sewuese Bumkeng also known as Princess Selizz’s comment that: “A guy can love you and still cheat, just like we love God but still sin” I have discovered that love doesn’t guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all years round, and on the other hand, cheating isn’t always a […]

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Inspirational, Stories 9/03/2017 by Soo Jessica

I Am A Woman!

So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. […]

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Inspirational, Stories 5/03/2017 by Sewuese Elizabeth Bumkeng

5 Things You Should Know About A Confident Woman

1. She is not afraid to speak her mind Remember that you have to have the power to be comfortable with yourself before you let someone else in your life. Speak up for yourself and for what you believe in. Don’t be a pushover and always fight for what you believe in. Think you deserve a raise? Ask for a […]

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