In today’s world, it does seem like we, the young people have decided to concentrate more on promoting the values of other cultures while our own cultural values are relocated to the background. Yet the implication that in neglecting to showcase our indigenous roots and the ideals on which our cultures stand on no one will do it for us […]
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What happens when you suddenly discover that the place you thought you were a stranger to, was actually another home? All my life I never knew there were Tiv people outside Benue State, so when the clarion call for service to my fatherland sent me to Taraba State, it was as if I was sent to die in an unknown […]
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A lot of you will be disappointed but then I am sorry…. I can’t help it! Every girl has at least dated a married man in her lifetime! Yes I say this because I know and I have fallen in love and still in love and still dating a married man. Truth is, I can never stop loving him. I […]
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We all get involved in a serious relationship at some point in our lives, be it falling in love with a significant other, or simply establishing an amazingly close relationship with a special someone. As soon as this relationship is in place, we must do our part to nurture it. When we fail to do so, everything begins to go […]
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Why not? When we devote time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained. We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive. The maids turn out to manage the indignation and insolence we and our children subject […]
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Who can find a Virtuous woman? A virtuous woman is so expensive and has invested time, morals, principles, prayer, money and hard work in herself. Her Lover trust her because she is all there is to be in a woman, a complete package, a woman with balance, she nurtures, loves, care and is pleasant to him all her life… Kai […]
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Don’t be in a hurry to move out of your parents house. Don’t wait for a man before you start living, you can live a fulfilled life as a single woman. Stay away from alcohol, it has killed others and you are not special. Don’t entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. Its not the right way to find […]
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Didn’t know how to cut it short as every line is important. My thoughts. We are naturally attracted to flashy things, anything that makes a lot of noise has a certain appeal to our minds. We follow a reigning trend without even considering the implications of our choices, insofar as many other people take the same way, we feel secure. […]
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The above statement is very true and a lot of people may laugh at me but they will agree it’s true. Especially with what I have seen in my marriage recently, I have been left with no choice but to believe every word of the statement that there’s nothing inside marriage, it is totally empty and I can prove it. […]
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The most vulnerable adult is the woman waiting for a fruit of the womb. She is ridiculed, has lost her sense of self and is gullible to anything filtered to her that can bring forth a child. She is led high and low, to doctors and spiritual healers. Confesses to all sorts and checks her family tree for issues. She […]
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